Have you ever believed in yourself? Did your parents
ever believe in you? For me it did not happen, ever. But sometimes life has
shown me good results.
When I was in primary school my progress was very
slow. My older brother was an excellent pupil. All of my parents’ efforts,
especially my mother’s, were directed to his progress when he started school.
When I entered school the next year, I think my parents were tired of this
activity. The care of my progress was the obligation of my brother. But I did
not want to obey him. I only wanted him to read fairy tales to me while lying
on the sofa. As a result my progress worsened.
I even had the worst rating in reading and math! My teacher rated my
actions as unsatisfactory! I don’t understand why, but I was also very shy. I
feared her.
My family finally became interested in my progress. I
remember one evening my entire family was busy helping me with my math
homework, in different places in our apartment!
My class then started a new, more difficult math
program. It was good exercise for my older brother, for my mother (she was a
bookkeeper) and for my father, who was an engineer.
Unbelievably, my progress had grown! Finally math -
especially geometry - had become my favorite subject! I could even help my
classmates understand it!
I didn’t go to medical school directly after high
school. I was interested in medicine
but my teacher told me that I should not
go into the medicine. Maybe she thought me squeamish and I could not be taught
medicine. She was surprised to know I worked at an anatomy department during my
studentship.
After I became a doctor, I ended up consulting and
treating her! That is progress!
Sujok is a fairly recent Asian therapy, like
accupuncture. One part of this therapy
is called “Twist Therapy”. When I
decided to work at the International Su jok academy in Moscow , my colleagues did not think I could
learn this technique and introduce it to other people. But they were
wrong. I DID understand the main point
of this unique study and have conducted many seminars on the subject. In fact, my work in Twist Therapy and
treating arterial hypertension has been published! I was very surprised to see
my name listed as one of the authors!
One time my chief shared with me an example of her
practice. An obese woman came to her for
treatment of her knee joints. My chief told her the treatment would not be
effective because of her weight, and expressed her doubt that the patient could
lose weight. Later, this patient came back for treatment. Now she was slender!
She had taken special laugh therapy which helped her lose the weight!
I think excessive praise causes pride and stops
emotional progress. My parents did not give us much praise. Usually they were
calm, and did not express any pride in our progress and successes.
Little children usually perceive life without thinking
about it. In the beginning, their entire world is the mother and the womb.
After, it becomes their family and house, then it becomes their friends, city,
etc. Their little world is developing like an expanding spiral and expands
their capacity.
The right expressed doubt can help overcome some
psychological complex and expand one’s abilities.
Will you love your enemies because they stimulate you
to action? Doubt is sometimes a very good stimulant to prove the opposite. All
our enemies and unfriendly people are our teachers.
In any process there is some moment you want to quit
and think it will not work. You need to
push through this moment and continue on your way. This is not easy. I had such
moments many times.
It does not matter whether or not somebody believes in
you. Your abilities are more than you or
they consider. Action is more valuable than empty arguments. Results come from
action. If noone believes in you, don’t pay attention. Simply act, and the
results will come. Believe in yourself, the rewards will
be more than you expect.
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